Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little.

And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward.

- How to keep moving forward, even when your brain hates you  (via floralnymph)

(Source : stilnes, via sincerely-margaret)

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'Reports emerge of violence in Glasgow’s City Centre tonight as groups unofficially aligned with the ‘Yes’ and ‘No’ sides of the Scottish Independence Referendum continue to taunt each other in the streets.’

ALSO: Pro union skinheads taunt defeated Scots independents

VID 1: http://youtu.be/QTDFJ15Mg7U

VID 2: http://youtu.be/K-DAfAI-zew

VINE: No Voters Surrounding Young Girls https://vine.co/v/OWPzrhni0Aj

ALSO: Lots of chatter about marches over the weekend

ALSO: Lots of anger directed at the BBC for failure to report events

UPDATE: 3 arrests, Scot Flag Ablaze, Reports of Stabbing - The square is currently closed to traffic

ALSO: Tomorrow, the 20th of September 2014, the Orange Order plan to march through Glasgow

Web cam: Glasgow George Square - updates every 20 seconds. http://goo.gl/TMWt3B

-BreitbartNews -RT -PoliticsAndThat  -Mirror -BBC -DailyMail -Reuters

I don’t usually reblog stuff like this, so I’m sorry for people who have come to my blog for funny posts and nmtd stuff, but this is my home city that’s burning right now and people need to be made aware of it.

As far as I can tell the No movement in Glasgow has been highjacked by a bunch of far-right, racist, homophobic, bigoted thugs (like those in the Orange Order or the English Defence League), who have started attacking pro-independence supporters, burning scottish flags, making fucking Nazi salutes, burning pro-independent buildings, and generally acting in an abhorrent manner. 

Now I supported the ‘No’ campaign, but I’m disgusted and embarrassed by the way these idiots are acting, and am very worried by the lack of coverage this is all receiving from the media, who are giving it hardly any attention and downplaying the riots as ‘boisterous celebrations’. It’s absolutely disgraceful, and i’m ashamed to be part of this movement, and even part of this country right now. Get your act together UK, you’ve survived the referendum, now look after Scotland!

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serve god, love me, and mend (1884 words) by ofilia [AO3]                     

Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Nothing Much to Do
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Beatrice Duke/Benedick Hobbes
Characters: Beatrice Duke, Benedick Hobbes, Leo Duke
Additional Tags: Fluff and Angst

"It suddenly occurred to Ben how lonely she might be feeling. And if he was being honest, he felt lonely too." After Hero is hospitalized, Ben and Bea have a moment in the waiting room.

So I wrote this a few days ago and forgot to post it here. Read it and be gentle, friends.

(Source : tumblr.com)

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